
Food has always been integral to my life- the everyday need and everything else. It was the means to offer an apology or the remedy for ‘all ‘ your illnesses.
It meant that you were accepted and, further, also trusted. It was the first thought item in any planning of celebration or trip.
0h Yes! It’s an insult to refuse someone’s offering of food.
That was the atmosphere I grew up in; it would be a ‘major crime’ to have a visitor with ‘nothing to eat’. It is a form of acceptance – if food is offered.
But also a means of communicating that you are not welcome. If not offered.
I learned from my Mother that food could bring people together. It was one of the ways she showed her love.
Food is meticulously prepared, no hurry- curry. With the presentation of utmost importance. The Food needed to be cooked with the Guest’s liking in mind.
One of the unique dishes was Curry Chicken. It was and still is my favourite food. It was usually prepared and served on special occasions.
The aroma of simmering curry still brings me joy, and my Mother was good at it.
Since then, Curry Chicken has lost its ‘ special occasion’ status and has become an everyday meal. An everyday meal I could eat every day.
Yet still, it is the only meal I could think of on a rainy day. Although Curry Chicken is my first choice, Curry in any form will get my attention.
Although I have always loved Food, I focused more on eating than learning how to prepare my favourites.
It all changed in 1984 after I was named the Best Debater in The Forbes Burnham Debating Competition at Critchlow Labor College. The prize was a cookbook.

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